Internal Family Systems Therapy (Parts Work)

A trauma-informed, queer-affirming path to self-connection and healing

Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy is a compassionate, non-pathologizing approach that helps you understand your inner world through the lens of “parts work.” At its core, IFS is rooted in the idea that we each hold a system of internal parts—distinct voices, feelings, or protective strategies that show up in response to life’s experiences. Some parts work to shield us from harm or overwhelm, while others carry deep emotional burdens shaped by trauma, loss, or early attachment wounds.

Instead of trying to eliminate or suppress these parts, IFS therapy invites us to get curious about them. Every part has a story. Every part has a role. And most importantly, every part is trying—however imperfectly—to help.

At the center of this work is your Self: the calm, grounded, and wise core of who you are. In IFS, healing doesn’t come from control or perfection—it comes from helping your Self lead with clarity, compassion, and courage. When Self is in the driver’s seat, inner conflict softens, emotional overwhelm begins to ease, and space is made for healing and integration.

Why IFS at Homebody Psychotherapy?

At Homebody Psychotherapy, IFS therapy is more than just a method—it’s a practice of coming home to yourself. This approach is especially powerful for queer, trans, and BIPOC clients, who often carry parts shaped by systemic oppression, cultural disconnection, and survival-based coping. IFS creates room to gently examine internalized messages, intergenerational wounds, and protective strategies without shame or judgment.

This work supports you in:

  • Unlearning internalized oppression

  • Healing from trauma and chronic stress

  • Navigating identity-based pain with compassion

  • Exploring parts related to sexuality, intimacy, or shame

  • Building deeper self-trust and emotional safety

IFS is particularly resonant for folks who want to deepen their connection with themselves beyond traditional talk therapy. It offers a language and framework that honors your wholeness, complexity, and resilience.

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Reclaiming voice, body, and belonging:

  • In our work together, you’ll learn how to:

    • Identify and connect with different “parts” of yourself

    • Understand each part’s role, fear, and intention

    • Reestablish your relationship with your Self—the part of you that is always calm, curious, and capable

    • Gently unburden parts carrying emotional pain, trauma, or shame

    • Lead your inner system with more compassion, clarity, and confidence

    Sessions are collaborative, slow-paced, and rooted in safety. Whether you’re seeking support around trauma, identity, sexuality, or emotional overwhelm, this work meets you where you are—with deep respect for your pace and story.

  • For queer, trans, and BIPOC clients, therapy often isn’t just about addressing personal struggles—it’s about healing in the context of systems that have long denied your full humanity. Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy offers a powerful framework to not only explore individual wounds, but to tend to the parts of you shaped by racism, homophobia, transphobia, colonization, and cultural disconnection.

    Many queer BIPOC individuals carry parts that have had to perform, protect, hide, or code-switch in order to survive. These parts may internalize messages of shame, unworthiness, or hypervigilance—not because they’re broken, but because they’ve adapted to a world that often doesn't make space for wholeness. IFS allows us to slow down and listen to these parts with compassion. It creates a space where you’re not being asked to justify your pain or shrink your truth.

  • At Homebody Psychotherapy, IFS therapy is explicitly anti-oppressive, kink-affirming, and sex-positive. This means your healing process is not approached through a lens of pathology, but through a lens of context, care, and cultural reverence. We make room for grief, for pleasure, for anger, for longing—for all of the parts that may have never had a safe place to speak.

    This work can support you in:

    • Unpacking internalized racism, homophobia, and gender-based trauma

    • Healing from religious shame or cultural silence around sex and desire

    • Reconnecting with ancestral wisdom and resilience

    • Building relationships with parts that have been silenced, dismissed, or erased

    • Cultivating a more embodied, liberated relationship to self and others